When my wife and I discovered in November 1984 that she was pregnant with our first child, it was my wife who did all the work of understanding the experience through reading a stack of books on pregnancy, birthing and babyhood since, to be honest, I was pretty much happy to stay clueless about the whole thing. I was still clueless when my wife told me she wanted a "natural birth" (aren't all births "natural"?); and then she was talking to me about somebody called Janet Balaskas and having an "active birth". I don't recall now how I responded to that novel idea - perhaps with, "Whatever you think is best" or something like that - but, in the fullness of time, my wife did indeed have an "active birth", at the Royal Hospital for Women's Birth Centre in Paddington, Sydney, when our daughter came into the world a healthy and happy baby and I was there in the room throughout to witness an event of such awesomeness it will always remain with me as a warm and delightful memory of an amazing and life changing day.
So, in a way, it was Janet Balaskas who initiated the non-mainstream parenting that has been a feature of my life ever since.